Q: Kia Waldain Kay Pairon Ka Bosa Laina Sawab Hay?
A: Agar Ehtram Aur Izzat Kay Liay Ho To Un Kay Sath Ehsaan Ki Fehrist Mein Shumaar Hoga.
Q: Walid Aur Walida Ki Ita‘at Ki Kya Hudood Hain?
A: Betay Par Apne Waliden Ke Hawale Se Do Cheezein Wajib Hain:
Pehli: Un Ke Saath Ihsaan Karna — Ya‘ni Agar Woh Mohtaaj Hon To Unpar Kharch Karna, Un Ki Zindagi Ki Zaruriyat Poori Karna, Aur Un Ki Jaa’iz Khwahishat Ko Un Ke Ma‘mool Ke Mutabiq Poora Karna. Ye Sab Woh Cheezein Hain Jo Fitrat-e-saleema Ke Taqazon Ke Mutabiq Hain, Aur Agar Koi Shakhs Aisa Na Kare To Ye Waliden Ke Ehsanaat Ka Inkaar Samjha Jaata Hai. Albatta Ye Daaira Un Ke Halaat Ke Hisaab Se Wasee‘ Ya Mehdoood Ho Sakta Hai — Ya‘ni Agar Woh Kamzor Hon To Zyada Khayal Rakhna Hoga, Aur Agar Taqatwar Hon To Kam.
Doosri: Un Ke Saath Achhi Rafaqat Ikhtiyaar Karna — Ya‘ni Unhein Apne Qoul Ya Fi‘l Se Koi Takleef Na Pohchana, Chahe Woh Us Ke Saath Zulm Hi Kyu Na Karein. Riwayat Mein Hai:
“Agar Woh Tumhein Maaren Tab Bhi Unpar Ghussa Na Karo, Balki Kaho: Allah Tum Dono Ko Bakhshe.”
Ye Sab Un Umoor Ke Baare Mein Hai Jo Waliden Ke Apne Ma‘amlaat Se Muta‘alliq Hon.
Q: Sawal: Kya Ilm Hasil Karna Wajib Hai Ya Mustahab? Aur Agar Waliden Betay Ko Ilm Hasil Karne Se Rokein, To Kya Beta Unki Nafarmaani Kar Sakta Hai? Aur Agar Woh Waliden Ki Razamandi Ke Baghair Ilm Hasil Karne Chala Jaye To Kya Woh ‘aaq’ Shumaar Hoga?
A: Fiqh Aur Ijtihad Ka Ilm Hasil Karna Wajib-e-kifai Hai, Yani Agar Kuch Log Is Farz Ko Ada Kar Lein To Baqiyon Se Yeh Zimmedari Saaqit Ho Jati Hai. Lekin Agar Aisa Koi Na Kare, To Phir Har Mukallaf Shakhs Par Yeh Wajib Ho Jata Hai, Aur Aisi Surat Mein Waliden Betay Ko Roknay Ka Haq Nahi Rakhte.
Albatta Agar Itne Log Maujood Hon Jo Is Farz Ko Ada Kar Rahe Hon, To Iska Wujub Baqiyon Se Saaqit Ho Jata Hai Aur Yeh Amal Mustahab (pasandeeda) Ban Jata Hai. Aisi Haalat Mein Agar Waliden Betay Ko Is Taleem Se Rokein, To Unki Mukhalafat Karna Agar Unko Aziyat Ka Bais Bane To Mukhalafat Jaiz Nahi. Lekin Agar Unhein Koi Aziyat Ya Be-adabi Mehsoos Na Ho, To Phir Mukhalafat Haram Nahi Hai, Kyunke Aulaad Par Sirf Waliden Ke Saath Nek Sulook Karna Wajib Hai, Na Ke Har Baat Mein Unki Ita‘at Karna.
